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A Serious Talk with a 7 Year Old

My youngest son is the baby of the family. As such, he has been babied by many in the family (I mean his siblings, and others, including close personal friends), to a degree where, in some (not all) situations, he does his absolute best to get people to do assigned tasks, or answer questions, or “help” him with things he doesn’t want to spend too much time on. Don’t get me wrong, when he has a mind, he’s one of the hardest working kids I know, but he has a tendency to lay on the cuteness factor, and play coy (though sometimes, he’s genuinely confused). Instead of correcting, and helping him do it for himself, many have responded with “aww, let me do that for you, little man!”

Today, we sat down to our family Bible Study, and he was a little bit confused (I said let’s read at verse 12 of Matthew 4, and we instead started at 13). Yet, Mr. 7 Year old didn’t stop to ask for help, and when we went around the table talking about what we just read, couldn’t find an answer for what we were talking about (he heard me read aloud, but chose not to pay attention, even if he was confused). When asked why he said he was confused, he said he was tired. While these may have been true, at least to his mind, they were excuses. Out of all my children, he’s the one who has not made any decisions to give his life to Jesus. And this is something we practice in our home: we don’t force a kid to get baptized and to say words he doesn’t mean. And, in light of this, we used the opportunity to talk about what Jesus did for us, and how it’s not mom’s, or dad’s, or his brothers’ faiths that can get him in to heaven. He must know Jesus for Himself, and surrender to Him, and be born again in to Him.

I know it’s a heavy talk. But we take it seriously when Deuteronomy 6 tells us to talk about the word when we rise up and when we sit down, when we go on our way, and to write it on the doorposts of our home. Loved ones, salvation is for everyone, and we need to often and always be talking about it with our loved ones. This is serious business: it’s all about eternity with or away from Jesus! Jesus is the only way to the Father. He says so, and in no uncertain terms. He, being God, became a man, born of a virgin, He lived a life perfect to all of God’s righteous requirements and covenants. He became the propitiation (replacement for) our sins, taking on Himself the wage we deserve for our sins (death). He died and was buried, and rose again, conquering death, so that we may have New Life now, and be resurrected with Him on the last day. So I’m going to continue having these serious talks with my 7 year old. I’m going to remind all of my children of sin, and what its price is, and how Jesus took our place to bear the wrath of God for our sake.

Deuteronomy 6

“Now this is the commandment—the statutes and the rules—that the LORD your God commanded me to teach you, that you may do them in the land to which you are going over, to possess it, that you may fear the LORD your God, you and your son and your son’s son, by keeping all his statutes and his commandments, which I command you, all the days of your life, and that your days may be long. Hear therefore, O Israel, and be careful to do them, that it may go well with you, and that you may multiply greatly, as the LORD, the God of your fathers, has promised you, in a land flowing with milk and honey.

“Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

“And when the LORD your God brings you into the land that he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, to give you—with great and good cities that you did not build, and houses full of all good things that you did not fill, and cisterns that you did not dig, and vineyards and olive trees that you did not plant—and when you eat and are full, then take care lest you forget the LORD, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. It is the LORD your God you shall fear. Him you shall serve and by his name you shall swear. You shall not go after other gods, the gods of the peoples who are around you— for the LORD your God in your midst is a jealous God—lest the anger of the LORD your God be kindled against you, and he destroy you from off the face of the earth.

“You shall not put the LORD your God to the test, as you tested him at Massah. You shall diligently keep the commandments of the LORD your God, and his testimonies and his statutes, which he has commanded you. And you shall do what is right and good in the sight of the LORD, that it may go well with you, and that you may go in and take possession of the good land that the LORD swore to give to your fathers by thrusting out all your enemies from before you, as the LORD has promised.

“When your son asks you in time to come, ‘What is the meaning of the testimonies and the statutes and the rules that the LORD our God has commanded you?’ then you shall say to your son, ‘We were Pharaoh’s slaves in Egypt. And the LORD brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. And the LORD showed signs and wonders, great and grievous, against Egypt and against Pharaoh and all his household, before our eyes. And he brought us out from there, that he might bring us in and give us the land that he swore to give to our fathers. And the LORD commanded us to do all these statutes, to fear the LORD our God, for our good always, that he might preserve us alive, as we are this day. And it will be righteousness for us, if we are careful to do all this commandment before the LORD our God, as he has commanded us.’

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