I personally have stopped making New Years Resolutions. Seriously. What they represent (to me) is a way to try and reinvent myself in the New Year. I think many are great, many are well intended, and most are poorly executed. And, when I stop to think about it, what is truly wrong with them is that many are so focused on a singular purpose, improving one’s self, that they cause us to set unrealistic expectations about our own abilities. In getting older, I realize that my body, my mind, everything is deteriorating. I can do my best to maintain what I have, but eventually, as they say, this tent is going to wear out. I can’t save or improve myself, not really. I need to be made completely new, and the process is not a year-to-year thing, but a daily renewal.
How do I get this daily renewal? It comes from surrender. Not to a process, or a product or a pill, but to the Prince of Peace and Lord of Lords, Jesus Christ. It is when I give my life, completely, to Him that I find peace. He needs to take my heart, my mind, my body, my soul, all of it, and make it new. And this is done only through Surrender to His Will. We are deteriorating, cursed, because of Sin. No matter what we do, we can’t avoid the consequence of sin, which is death. This is why Jesus came: HE lived the perfect life that we could not. HE died in our place conquering sin upon the cross by paying our debts with His own life. HE nullified death by rising from the grave. He is at the right hand of the Father, alive, advocating for us day and night, and by His Spirit, He changes, restores, and renews us. It’s about what He has done, not what we can do. And so I resolve, not this year, but today, and every day hereafter, to surrender, and allow Christ to renew my mind in Him.
2 Corinthians 5:
For we know that if the tent that is our earthly home is destroyed, we have a building from God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens. For in this tent we groan, longing to put on our heavenly dwelling, if indeed by putting it on we may not be found naked. For while we are still in this tent, we groan, being burdened—not that we would be unclothed, but that we would be further clothed, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. He who has prepared us for this very thing is God, who has given us the Spirit as a guarantee.
So we are always of good courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith, not by sight. Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil.
Therefore, knowing the fear of the Lord, we persuade others. But what we are is known to God, and I hope it is known also to your conscience. We are not commending ourselves to you again but giving you cause to boast about us, so that you may be able to answer those who boast about outward appearance and not about what is in the heart. For if we are beside ourselves, it is for God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. For the love of Christ controls us, because we have concluded this: that one has died for all, therefore all have died; and he died for all, that those who live might no longer live for themselves but for him who for their sake died and was raised.
From now on, therefore, we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we once regarded Christ according to the flesh, we regard him thus no longer. Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation; that is, in Christ God was reconciling the world to himself, not counting their trespasses against them, and entrusting to us the message of reconciliation. Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.